If A Man Wants You

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then hell no, you can't "be friends."
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything.
He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior.
Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies.....
You'll make someone SMILE
Another RETHINK her choices
And another woman PREPARE.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person
An hour to appreciate them
A day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

WTF IS WRONG WIT THE WORLD

This is so sad....

AND Y THIS BITCH ATTRACTING FLIES TO HER BUTTCRACK....LEFTOVERS...

UGGHHHHHH!...SHE GOT A DONK THO..LMAO SIIIKKKKEEE

NOW U KNOW....GET THE FUCK OUTTA HERE

DAAMMMNNNNNN BLLOOOOOOOWWWWWNNNNNN

IT WANTS TO HAVE SEX WIT U NOW!!!

more pics to come!!

RANDY GETTIN' MONEYYYYY

ok so last night was ABDC night!

i was on the phone wit marcus
and we were watching last weeks episode
even tho i already saw it last week
i had to watch it to point out the funny moments
cuz marcus had SOMETHING IMPORTANT
to do last week...he missed:

lil mama squeezing those fake ass tears out
and shane sucking everybodys dick
i love this show....because of the dancers...
from this season....these are my crews:

These STOMP THE YARD MOFOS....LOOK LIKE THEY ON THE DOWNLOW

BUT THEY CAN PUT ON A SHOW
I love the beat freaks....these girls go hard!

Always a group if asian boys that can dance like shit...

ps...the dude in the middle is GAY as shit

These freaks...but they can dance



I hate these frickin people


Shane looks like he ready to suck off dancers from season 3.




HE BE STROKING HIS MEAT UNDERNEATH THE TABLE

AND LIL MAMA JUST NEEDS TO SHUT THE FUCK UP!!

FAKE CRYING AND SHIT


OK...so theres a little story behind my blog title...

like i said, me and marcus were on the phone.

and when the title of the show pops up:



marcus goes "where is randy anyways? oh yea he doing american idol"

domo says "oh yea he is"

THIS MUTHAFUCKA MARCUS STARTS SINGING AND THIS IS WAT HE SAYS:

"RANDY GETTIN MONEYYY" (sing it as if it was beyonce's diva song)
LMMFAO
marcus....u lost cool points...but i will give u a brownie point
cuz it was FUNNNY AS SHIT...
maybe you had to be there...cuz we were laughing for a good 20 minutes
GOOD TIMES

Weekend Fun

so this past weekend was pretty fun.

on friday my dad came down from connecticut.

we had my mom's crispy noodles YESSSSSS.

later on that night...

pink hawaiian....good stuff.

saturday i worked at the mall and it was crazy busy.

that also means people was gettin on my nerves.

i closed on saturday.

after work i went to mychelle and thomas' house.

kelly and his friend was there.

they were playing guitar heroes and mychelle was rockin the MIC.

or at least she tried! sike hahahhaha

so thomas convinced me to play...

and i frickin love it! soo fun

STRAWBERRY DAIQUIRI'S OHHH YEAAAAAA (my non alcoholic ass was drinking lol)

i whooped his ass...hahahhaa

i kno i kno i was on EASY and he was on MEDIUM.

and i was on the MIC singing like im gwen stefani

"SORRY IM NOT HOME RIGHT NOW IM WALKING INTO SPIDERWEBS SO LEAVE A MESSAGE AND I'LL CALL U BACK" LMAO

my ass was jumpin up and down...fun fun

pictures coming soon as my laptop gets fixed!!

MY FRICKIN JAMMMMMMM

LISTEN TO THE WHOLE SONG CLICK ON THE LINK!!!
Slow - Jamie Foxx
Oooh oooooh ooohohohhhooo
(Oh oh oh oh)
Oooh oooooh ooohohohhhooo
(Oh oh oh oh)

There's so much shit
I wanna do, to you
(You you you you)
First you gotta step
Into this room
(Room room room)
Now, look into my eyes
Imma look right into yours
Cut the lights off
But don't you close the door
Tonight I'm gonna make
My hallways echo you
(You you)

Now pull my shirt off
Pull your jeans down
Oh baby take your time
Now turn around
As our bodies catch the mirror
Let me grind into the song
Imma do you all night long

And now we go slow, slow, slow
(You you you)
And now we go slow, slow, slow
Those other guys
Don't get it like I get it
Cause I'm with it, I get it
And they just wanna hit it
But I hear you, I pay attention
I'm not finished till you're finished

You gon get yours, imma get mine
(Imma get mine, imma get mine)
And imma take my time (time)
And wine my baby slow

Shorty like it slow,
Sh-sh-sh-shorty like it slow slow slow
Shorty like it slow,
Slow, slow, slow slow
Shorty like it slow,
Sh-sh-sh-shorty like it slow
Shorty like that slow,
Slow slow slow slow

Baby imma do
You till you lose your mind
Baby
You're so oeh oeh
Oeh oeh oeh so freakin' fine
Ehey, imma do your little body
Like a rollercoaster
So hold on tight lay on my shoulder
And slowly but surely
Imma bake that body like a cake
You're gonna sweat these sheets out
Imma mess your hair up
And imma wild out on ya
Like I don't give a fuck
Until it's three o'clock,
Four o'clock, five o'clock six
And I gotta take my time with you
Cause your shit is the shit

And now we go slow, slow, slow
(You you you)
And now we go slow, slow, slow
Those other guys
Don't get it like I get it
Cause I'm with it, I get it
And they just wanna hit it
But I hear you, I pay attention
Not finished till you're finished

You're gonna get yours, imma get mine
(Imma get mine, imma get mine)
And imma take my time (time)
And wine my baby slow

Shorty like it slow,
Sh-sh-sh-shorty like it slow,
Slow slow slow slow
Shorty like it slow,
Sh-sh-sh-shorty like it slow,
Slow slow slow slow

Oooohh
That's it here we go
Put my love in the air
If the curtains are open
I don't care it's there upstairs
I can do home alone
If it's there on the staircase
Baby let me make your day

New Years 09

So everyone came to bac nams house for new yrs eve. we were playing cards and eating some good food. for the first time in a long time we had the family together for once! the kids had us cracking up! im so glad i caught the moments!!!!

here are some pictures from that night...

FIREWORKS!!!!

ALANNNNAAAAA!!!!!

SHE WAS HAPPY FOR NEW YRS....and sleeping most of the time!

FREAK!

SHE LOVES HER AUNT DOMO!

JANUARY 1, 2009 8:30AM

This morning Max got attacked by the nextdoor neighbors pitbull. Max was in the backyard and the pitbull ran over and attacked Max....had a grip on his neck. When the owner finally got the pit to let go of max....he had ripped his chest....poor max!!! The kids ran up and woke me and sylv up...when we ran downstairs....we saw co hang tryna wrap a shirt around max to keep him from bleeding everywhere......

POOR MAX :(

REMY WAS TRYNA HELP LIKE A GOOD SISTER!

Look at remy and ariana knocked out on both my legs!

me and dan took a walk with the kids...

my new neighborhood????? maybe????

The cutest videos!!!!!
My babies workin it!!!! A 2 STEP...A 2 STEP....
JIGGIWINY? LMAO

WATCH DAN AT THE END OF THIS VIDEO LMAO!!! CAUGHT U!!!
UH OH OH OH OH OH OH OH OH OH OH OH

TAMIKA GIRRRLLLL

So lately ive been talkin to tamika about our highschool memories...and we had soo much fun. we got our phD in wat? lmao...U KNO WAT IM TALKIN BOUT GIIIIRRRRLLLLL. i had to put our go hard gangster "lets wear jerseys" pics up....hahaha

From meeting in Ms. Pettigrew's class (u in the mickey mouse hoody and me wit my braces which got on ur nerves lmao) to becoming the best of friends.

and we cant forget about the best springbreak ever!!!

oh shit lol 2 sexy mamas!!!!

"above the chest channy take the pic above the chest"

i got a lot to say about this trip! first of all.....i want to thank channy for inviting reina...she made the trip so much more interesting LMAO...jk. first of all let me start off by talkin about when we first arrived. we arrived early evening and thats when there were a lot of people walking around. we was FRESH ridin in the benz lmao (losers) especially when khia "my neck my back" came on and gangsta boo(reina) was singing that out the window loud as shit EMBARRESSING the fuck outta us. talkin bout "lick my P***Y AND MY CRACK".......one word:

UUUUUUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

anyways...well during our trip at myrtle we went to a haunted house...out to eat...dancing at the FREAKI TIKI club and talkin to strangers...which led to talkin to the carolina boys!!!

"they're best friends...we're best friends.......BRACELETS IN THE AIR....BEST FRIENDS!!!!"

LMAO

Channy~ "do ya'll wanna play a game?"

this was one of the best times of my life....one reason is cuz i had wild and fun times wit the girls...and another reason is.....

cuz i met my boo *4-10-04*!!!! DUHHH

That was then...



This is now...